Vegan Dating Doesn’t Have To Be Hard
Vegan dating doesn’t have to be hard. If you have a vegan or vegetarian lifestyle and are looking for matchmaking, dating or love, you are not single for the reasons you think you are.
This blog is a continuation of the series on how to find your Vegan Love 101.
Too often my clients come to me thinking they are single for one reason, but after just one Cupid Call with them I’m able to uncover the patterns of what’s REALLY holding them back.
So you might be asking yourself what’s the most common reason why people are single? Well let me tell you, it’s because you are blocking yourself!
If you are like my most successful clients before we started working together, then chances are, you are probably blocking your own love life. We all have baggage from past relationships, but the way we carry that baggage determines our ability to find love.
The number one thing I teach my clients is how to LET GO of ALL of that BS, so that you can be free and move forward. And it’s more than just saying to “let go,” because we go through a systematic process that WORKS no matter how long my clients have held onto their blocks and limiting beliefs.
Love is all about taking risks, there is no love without risk so it’s normal for you to have your guard up and be protective of your heart. Getting your heart broken SUCKS, but it is SO worth it in my opinion. But there are ways to let go of that heartbreak and to also take new risks that aren’t as risky. Above everything else, you have to understand how you block yourself and how to remove those blocks so you can experience the love you deserve.
Remove the fear of being vulnerable, of putting yourself out there, and of showing the world how truly amazing you are.
So let me ask you a few questions:
- Are you overlooking great potential partners over something trivial?
- Are you giving people enough of a chance?
- Are you running away at the first sight of what you consider to be a “red” flag?
- Are you doing the same thing over and over again, and still frustrated that you’ve not gotten different results?
You are being blocked by the stories you tell yourself and by your behaviors.
Honestly, the “too picky” story really is that you’ve become “comfortable” being alone, you don’t truly believe in yourself, you don’t think your person even exists.
No wonder you’re struggling! And, if you don’t believe in yourself, I’m going to take a guess that you’re like most of my most clients when they start working with me:
You don’t think you are WORTHY of finding love and being loved.
The story that you’re single because you’re too picky or that you can’t find any single veg men or women is just that… a story.
Yes the pool of veg single is small compared to the rest of the population, but you don’t need to have a million people to choose from to find someone truly special. It only takes ONE person 🙂
But it doesn’t mean that it’s impossible for you to find veg love! I’ve proven time and time again that the veg singles are out there, and I’ve been able to find thousands of them all over USA/Canada.
Oftentimes love is right under our nose, and it’s SO easy to miss out on amazing people when we are blocking ourselves with the things that we think are the reasons why we can’t find our veg love.
The truth is that we aren’t in the right mindset to find love!
Here are the most important things to know:
- Vegan dating and partnership doesn’t have to be hard
- Letting go doesn’t mean just getting over it…it means you have to work through it
- Your person is out there, and you don’t have to sacrifice yourself to find them or keep them.
Two last questions before I go…
Have you ever asked yourself WHY you’re single?
What patterns do you need to break up with to become available and ready for love?
Or, if you’ve had enough of blocking yourself and want to move through this to the love you desire, it’s time to invest and book a call with me.
ps. NEW: Find Your Match Program – a GREAT alternative to dating apps, I promise!